“If you’re happy and you know it
clap your hands.” Remember that song; remember those days? You’d sing it with your child, usually
in a circle with other kids and mothers; and there you’d all be…so happy, and
you knew it.
Maybe it’s me, but these kinds of
shortcuts to personal satisfaction aren’t what they used to be. Recently I’ve been
inundated with Facebook tests to determine the color, city, nickname, and dog
that make me most happy. However their conclusions, respectively:
green, London, Cutie, and whippet, prove that I’ve gotten it all wrong. All along, I’ve thought of myself as a
poodle-loving Francophile [who would never be called “Cutie”] happily
surrounded by the powerful SRQ blue of sky and sea. Apparently, I’m not happy… and I don’t know it.
One recent survey I took made it
abundantly clear that I don’t even live in the house most suited to my true
nature. It revealed that I should
not be in a Florida home, built in the “Faux Mediterranean-No-No” style I favor,
a hodgepodge pile of wrought iron features, colorful stucco, and bougainvillea
festooned loggias. Rather, this survey concludes that my destiny is a post-modern
structure perched on a hilltop overlooking Crete. But didn’t that other test say
I’d be happiest in London? And, would someone called “Cutie” live in a post-modern
house anyway?
Until I started taking these
surveys, I thought my SRQ life was pretty good. So what if a bunch of questionnaires
reveals that every decision I’ve ever made is wrong? How can so wrong feel so right? [And I’m not a country song
lyricist.]
Why even bother to try and understand? After all, this morning’s survey revealed that I’m actually a unicorn. And from what I’ve gathered from reliable sources, Sarasota unicorns are very happy, whether they know it or not.